Not online dating


When it comes to online dating etiquette, it's hard to know when and how to tell someone you're not into them. Dating experts share with us the best ways.

That’s my feedback–it’s not working for me. Is it because I’m Indian? Is it because I’m 36? Is it because I’m in New York City? If you can help, I’d appreciate it. –Mellie

She wasn’t being rude; I’m not beautiful in the traditional sense. I have pock-marked skin, hooded eyes, and a bulbous nose. My voice is deep, which apparently makes me less desirable to men . My eye color isn’t interesting, and my hair is always feral. I’m not ugly, but I don’t have much beauty privilege ( and make no mistake, beauty privilege yields tangible rewards ). From grade-school dances in gyms to corporate happy hours, I’ve been “swiped left” on more than my fair share.


Not online dating

Not online dating