First messages on online dating


I try not to lose hope that there can be some genuine connections made through meeting someone off of the internet. Plenty of people seem to prove that every day. I have even made several lasting friends from some of my experiences.

So, what should your first message consist of (and not consist of)? We’ve got some tips for you to help your chances of getting a response.

Crappy openers like ‘Hi there’ or ‘Hi Gorgeous’ are clichéd and most likely to get yawned over and forgotten quickly. If you are a dude sending a message to a cool chic, get it into your head, you are not the only one. Her inbox is most likely littered with boring messages like yours unless you do something about it.  Go out-the-box like Pandora with it. Smart lines like, ‘May I ask you something?’ or ‘I think I who your favourite actor is,’ work great. Think beyond your comfort zone be intriguing, coax her into letting you in and reacting to your first email.


First messages on online dating

First messages on online dating